When the sea of love is turbulent…Being in a relationship presents opportunities that take conscious navigation.

Couples Session

What is the WE?

The WE is the body that has formed between you—the greater-than-the-sum-of-our-parts part of the relationship—and when we forget to tend to this “body,” we can often lose sight of what matters in a relationship, or the essence and deeper potential of the relationship.

When WE falls apart

When this happens, we often also lose sight of why we are in this other than the nitty-gritty tasks and division of labor stuff. We can quickly become disenchanted because sharing the work—when what we really want to share is our heart—leaves a deep longing for something other than what we think we have. 

Returning to WE
During a couple’s session you will find and tend the love, find and tend the potentiality, find and tend the essence of each other. Enjoying WE means making that essence more real, important and central than the problem—this is the solution.

Why Now?
Alexis is uniquely talented at supporting couples by balancing the practical—communication skills and regular daily practices—with the impractical (love is not practical!). She helps you find destiny, evolution, and what Life itself wants from our Union. She is able to teach skills while also accessing the invisible threads of connection that bind us, helping us find ways to untangle the tangled threads, then weaving them into a more satisfying and elevating life and Union.

Couples Session Rates

90-Minute Sessions

One Session: $300


Package of 3: $900 for New Clients, $825 for Existing Clients

*Sessions are paid in advance and bundled into 3-session packs for a small discount. When paying in advance is financially impossible, other arrangements can be made via a conversation with Alexis, but discounted rate no longer applies.

Going all the way

Going all the way is a comprehensive rite of passage for Couples wanting to take a profound journey into and through the barriers to full depth and capacity in love, and for folks wanting to work with Lexi from a distance-all of this can be done via ZOOM. This protocol has been lovingly constructed, based on almost 20 years of working with couples, to take you to the next level of intimacy and connection in your primary relationship, whatever that may be.

How does this work?

We begin with 90 minutes together to create a deep and safe and connected space and then to clarify what we are working with and on—where you want to go together.

From there we schedule x2 60-minute sessions each to work individually towards those goals, then we come back for another x2 90-minute sessions to anchor the individual work we did back into “the WE”.

Now we move to setting 1-3 Constellations depending on how the first stages of our work have settled for you and the relationship. This can look like 1 Couples Constellation or a personal Constellation for one or both of you, then a couples Constellation-this will become clear as we do the prep work.

We close this process with a set of practices for you to implement at home to keep the love flowing and build the neural networks to sustain the profound changes you have made back in ordinary life.

This Rite of Passage is structured to be a profound dive into your WE.

You will do your personal work related to how you come to relationship “in sickness and in health”.

You will receive perspective on how your relationship is affected by the collective archetypes of relationship; marriage, masculine and feminine dynamics, and your personal destiny lines with each other.

You will have tools that work, for shifting how you love, how you connect, how you serve your own relationship and the collective.

You will clear layers of obstruction, based on your family history and “inheritance” around relationship and make way for the depth, commitment and potential we are longing for in our primary relationships while also deepening into love with yourself.

At the end of this time, there may still be work to do, but the way forward will be both clearer and smoother.

If you know you need a deep dive and can make the time and space, you are also welcome to come to PrayerFarm and do this as an intensive*—stay here for 3-6 days and we will wholeheartledy dive into your process while providing you with an incredible container for yourselves—both via the beauty of the natural environment here at PrayerFarm and the sweet accommodations and care Alexis and community offer our guests.

If this is desired, reach out to Lexi and we can work out the details.

Going All The Way Rates

90-minute sessions x 3

1-hour session x 1 

And Constellation x 1

= $1700

Private Constellations

= $375 each.

*There is an additional fee for doing this as an intensive at PrayerFarm


Why Alexis?

Alexis has been working with couples for over 15 years.

She has also been in partnership with her husband for over 24 years. Being awake and alive in marriage and partnership is a daily practice and experience for her, so you’ll find that she’s grounded in the realities of time, family life, and balancing the many blessings and challenges while bringing a refreshing take on what makes partnership thrive and grow.

Sessions can be done in-person or through Zoom. Recordings available upon request. 

Purchase an couples 90 minute session, or a package of 3 sessions.

Please view Alexis’s Policies for information on payments and preparation for private sessions.

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