Writings & Media

Allowing Uncertainty to Guide You

In Constellation Work, the basic practice is inviting a few people onto a carpet to represent people, places, things, and ideas on behalf of someone else. (Such a nutshell – find a more thorough description here). Constellation Work is a slow process compared to how we move in regular life;

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Book Review: Out of Africa

Out of AfricaThis is kind of an anti-book review and an opportunity to share a tiny example of my personal decolonization work. Some months ago, in preparation for a trip to South Africa, I decided to read Out of Africa by Isak Dinesen; such a classic and somehow, I’d never

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Book Review: Sun House

If you read one book in 2024, please make it Sun House by David James Duncan. This is truly his opus. Sun House is not only an amazing read, it is an important book and holds so many pieces of the “how” of the way forward… amazing characters, deep insight

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Making peace with the darkness

It is Solstice, and I write from the deep pre-dawn darkness here at the westernmost point in the United States. The Pacific Ocean roars faintly in the background, raindrops patter, a fire blazes, candles burn… and I have so much to say. Yet it is not time to say it, it is time to stay quiet, inward, still. It is time to hold my own counsel and listen to the darkness; to what comes from the flicker of firelight and tending the hearth of this sacred season…

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Reflections from the Knowing Land

My return from 3 weeks on the southern tip of Africa has been powerful. The coming days, weeks, and months will illuminate more. I found myself utterly en-wondered by our shared homeland, Mother Africa; the cradle of humankind. Literally there were Welcome Home signs everywhere… I have been welcomed home

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